You can say no, no, no as much as you like and deny up and down till youre blue, but that still doesnt get the idea about a woman, out of a mans mind. I see more and more people concerned about being great in the bed, more than their concerned with the loyalty Im sick of all the excuses we create in society.. Diseases are incredibly rampant.. I wonder how many marriages would last if they really even knew. That is why at the very beginning I say I think it is best for people to wait with sex. problem for other potential people you fall for, IF youre lucky and fall for Humans have emotions. One of the things you notice is that seperate from the incels and terpers is a demographic of dudes who could get casual sex or FWB's but don't want them. I completely understand where you are coming from and I do believe in discussing a persons past. Not Females, you shall not fornicate. As you are starting to realize, it isnt worth holding over someones head, especially when it is the woman you love. That's why I am so thankful that I have Jesus as my perso. someone else. Men getting around has never been acceptable behavior and never should be. In my opinion once again Women should be winning, but because they are willing to accept this garbage and keep giving it up, Women are losing. Im also pretty sure she wants to be with me and nobody else at this pointon top of the fact that shes cried in front of me and feels super ashamed. And, yet, came to this earth and mankind to serve and not to be served. Good for you dear, Im happy for you, and your relationship, but the fact is, the more partners a woman has had, the less likely her marriage is to last. i must say im a hypocrite on this one. On March 12, 2003, 15-year-old Elizabeth Smart was found safe nine months after being abducted from her family's home in Salt Lake City, Utah. Trust anyone that knows me can tell you I dont even like describing women as hoes or whores I just wanted to use that term to make a point. She has actually opened a dialogue with me about the fast girls. Knowing her past is good in understanding who she was and who she has become, but who she is today should hold the most weight in determining if she is the best person for you. In addition, these so called beta men you speak of are men who actually are much more prone to have a family, take an active part in their childrens lives, and love their wives. Furthermore, I think that guys that dont care about their partners Main and women are different for reason and once we start opening up the doors for women to act similar to mens unhealthy actions, Youll start seeing to even higher divorce rate in the future. I feel most people focus on the physical aspect of sex but overlook the mental and emotional aspect which plays an even bigger role in how good the sex can be. You can love sex without being a slut. With a topic as sensitive as this misunderstanding will happen and I appreciate you taking the time to explain yourself. I know she has never had a super long term relationship and by her own admittance promiscuity has always been a part of her life for example. Nothing wrong with that. It would be a lot easier to have a healthy attitude about others sex lives if we can accept our own without pressure to be a certain way by the world around us. She had to total. Id like to think that we live in a liberated, sex-positive society where people understand that people have sex and ITS A HUMAN THING, not only a man-thing or a woman-thing. you may have some serious issues and I would say that its too many. But since sex is expensive for women, she gets to choose. With that said, I am not saying the numbers are the reason for her behavior because as I mentioned before, I agree that she was or islikelypromiscuous as a result of some underlying issue but I do see a correlation between the higher numbers and their view of whats acceptable behavior in a committed relationship. In todays age just go to pub or bar and buy the drinks for the women and they can have sex with any unknown person ( what does that mean Slut right). they resort back to their network of past sex partners, or start going It encourages an atmosphere of male entitlement. I am with you 100% on everything you said I am just wondering because I like your input you said everything for me! How do you think He will respond to what you happen to think about Him and His lack of existence? As long as you're both safe and clean, what's the harm? "Promiscuous" is a term that is almost always used when speaking about a woman; it is most often pejorative. Some may argue that it speaks to her character. esp on the parent side of things. THIS IS LIFE. If the man I marry is from my state, hell definitely know someone I went to school with. you certainly would be a fool to expect that it wouldnt have I have self-esteem. If your not going to be responsible w/ your body your either going to lose that double standard, or lose respect. I've just been pulled super fucking deep into this r/seduction stuff albeit not too much into this red pill stuff. So I have to make the decision..do I want her after the wear and tear of 200 men?? It is what it is, but the most important part is your STD FREE!!!!! Anyone who tells you different is selling something or a rabid feminist. But then you are honest with them and now they arent so sure Nothing wrong with knowing who she was with in the past, but understand and respect who she has become in the present. For awhile I thought I would always have this problem but then suddenly something happened. Thats deepmakes me feel foolish for rejecting some females because of my insecurity about their sexual past. A dream. I still disagree with your overall position on the matter. take her to my babysitting job and we can babysit the little kid and eachother ;) to my work, she can help me move machines and i can help her move her machine ;) maybe take her to a big scary movie called CLOWNS R KOOL and then buy her a balloon. Chances are that if this is your question then you have not read the whole article. And, dude, Im going to say this to you, and then Ill be signing off. As of today a lot of women in late teens and 20's are in a "hoe stroll" and this article in just another trash it makes them have a reason / justifying their action. You are not. great number of men for the same reason. Maybe instead of looking up information about "dating a slut," look up information like "like a girl but she has slept with many other guys." Cheers. The fact that there is a message board Nothing has ever been more important than that. Men always have an ideal and fantasize; women are guilty of that as well, but b/c of societal conditioning, we accept this double-standard. You have always been a dreamer, but you've never thought that your dreams will come true. Folks need to grow up and kill all the judgement as if they are walking perfection. By that point, Hucknall had apparently slept with . Start this quiz to find your result. I do not like the double standard but I cannot deny that it exists. I dont think they should, but they will and that man will never know. It only hurts her to vent. No one would want their daughter or niece to sleep around. If they say they dont feel secure in the relationship, Phsyically, Id agree. And no, the man is not estimating. Eventually we grew apart because she was ready to start a family and I was not. Smh Of course Im gonna take the car with the less mileage on it. And that is with all else being equal. Employers, colleges, every institution we have asks about past because it matters. Times may have changed in some perspectives but evolution is a long process and these inbred instincts are deeply rooted which is why most men will have sex with a slutty girl, but will never marry or commit to her. (one-nighters) out of the 19 people Ive had sex with that I didnt get to Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. You make a great case for why women should not be promiscuous, but what the article is trying to convey is that their past should not be held over their head forever. If you arent proud of your number when I asked by a potential life partner, you could be a slut. Drop them. You really want to marry miss double penetration? to each their own. I had a serious relationship with my ex wehn i was 26, i lost my virginity to him, however he did not lose it with me, i knew he had an ex..but that never bothered me i loved and cared for him just the same, we both wanted to get married but it was not able to materialize as parents would not agree. This article is not condoning or promoting promiscuity as you obviously seem to think. Everyone has the right to judge and they WILL until the end of time as we know it and there is not damn thing wrong with it!!! Wants to claim equality between men and women, but cant handle criticism as well as a man, not as physically strong or tall as a man . But she was still a really nice lady, and from what I hear pretty good at sex. You are correct that you cant do anything about the man before you being bigger but I most certainly believe you can still be better. Hell to some if you arent a virgin you are a whore. Only 2 of them were and the other 13 just encounters. HOWEVER, if the candidate was honest about their past and they were suitable, they stand as good a chance as any. It started to become so frustrating that men would love everything about me but judge me sexually. Make Him Worship the Ground You Walk On! Tighter in actuality isnt always better. Sure, that is what many men (especially those who are getting up there) say. Oh you left them because of that? I asked her to swear on her deceased grandfathers grave and on our relationship to tell the truth and she swore it was 11. By the help of the Queen mother _= A RUNS GIRL TURNS TO BE A MILLIONAIRE !!! Im sorry you had to experience that. Also understand some people do not choose to have sex because they view it as not having respect for themselves some just like it and view it as a choice they have the right to make (we can debate whether that choice is right or wrong). Everyone has a past. She is a great woman and I am a great man. The number of sexual partners a woman has had does not determine what type of woman she is. Many women (not all) but many women have gone through there Hoe Stroll (not trying to offend, just making a point). And the high quality woman (in terms of youth, health, and fecundity) also historically wanted a man who was generous and would provide her and her offspring with resources and security. I agree women would get jealous as well and prefer that men dont have much of a past that they have to compete with. Yes, there is certainly a price I am paying: not seriously dating sluts. I completely understand where you are coming from. If you find someone that loves you, supports you, and that you love and aregenuinely happy being around dont let the number of sexual partners that person has had force you to leave someone who was perfect for you. I agree. In this day and age, very few women or men will be virgins when you marry them. 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